Saturday, October 11, 2014

Lizzy's Birth Story

I was due, according to the chart and my doctor, on September 17 and according to an ultrasound and my calculations on September 20th. Since it was only a couple days difference my doctor didn't think it was worth it to push my due date back. I'd been telling everyone the 20th so if I went late it wouldn't seem quite so bad, it didn't really work out that way. 

I had an appointment on Friday the 19th where we discussed my options, my doctor wanted to avoid me having a c-section as much as I did. So we set up an appointment for the next week with the intention of scheduling an induction for the next day if I made it that long. We both fully anticipated me going into labor on my own sometime over the weekend. Before I left she said that anytime between now and then if I was still pregnant I could call up and she would schedule me to be induced whenever I wanted. The weekend came and went and Monday I was vacillating between waiting to go into labor on my own and calling and scheduling an induction. By Monday afternoon I still hadn't had any real contractions, so I called up my doctor and we scheduled the induction for Tuesday morning, September 23rd. 

Tuesday morning we put Peter on the bus and got ready to head out to the hospital. My mom was here for a week to help so she stayed with the other kids and Andrew and I left to go the the hospital. I do have to say it's nice to have an appointment to have a baby, we got to skip triage and go straight to a room. My labor and delivery nurse, Tracie, was awesome! I got there and explained that I was GBS positive and would need the antibiotic, which has a 4 hour active period before I would be given another dose, and I told her that I didn't want an epidural and she didn't bat an eye and I never saw an anesthesiologist. We got the pitocin going on a low dose that would guarantee I would get the full potency of the antibiotic and so we decided that after that point a doctor would come in and check me and break my water. Andrew and I had a fun morning playing on our kindles and reading and eating ice chips (they have the awesome chewable ice) and popcicles and watching my contractions on the monitor. After the first four hours, I'd been having moderate contractions, the doctor came in and checked me and I was a 4 which was 2 more than I had been that morning, and she broke my water. I continued having contractions and my pitocin was turned up and I honestly was expecting to have a baby within half an hour since that's how it went with Josie and Elias, but I went on contracting and they were gradually getting more intense. So two more hours went by and I was getting uncomfortable and was moving around in my bed and at one point I leaned forward and started gushing fluid almost like my water had broken a second time, so I called in a nurse and got that taken care of, but still no baby. The more I moved to get comfortable the more fluid came out and the more intense my contractions became. I don't really know the time frame after that, it was close to the end and I couldn't do anything during my contractions except close my eyes and breathe through them and I wouldn't let Andrew read to me or talk to me during the contractions. Then I was having contractions that made my hands and feet have that tingling feeling like they were going to sleep and it was becoming much harder to relax during these contractions. Andrew was holding my hand and trying to help me relax and breathe. My nurse went ahead and checked to see what my progress was and I was then a 6, so we figured I still had time until it was time to push, but we were wrong. Shortly after she checked me I started to have pushing contractions and then they got more intense and there was nothing anyone could do to stop me from pushing. So she called for a doctor and the other people usually there during a  delivery and  then a minute or so later she called and told therm we had a baby. My awesome nurse with only Andrew and a nursing student in the room delivered Lizzy. It was about 15 minutes from the time she determined I was a 6 until the time Lizzy came out. I heard her say something about having to move the rest of my cervix out of the way while I was pushing. I tore just a little and had to get a couple stitches. And the other nurses and doctors were amazed that I did it all without an epidural. One of the nurses told me that less than 10% of the babies born at that hospital happen without an epidural. I also have to say that Tracie put the IV in my wrist and that was the least offensive IV I've ever had. There was zero bruising when they took it out the next morning. 

Lizzy was a little bruised and had a nice round head since she spent very little time in the birth canal. I believe she had APGAR scores of 8 and then 9. They got her cleaned up and made sure her airway was clear and she nursed right away. She was 8 lbs 14 oz and 21". 

Having had a variety of birth experiences with and without various drugs and assistance I would say that Elias's delivery was my favorite. There's something to be said about having a baby exactly when my body was ready to have one. I've heard that the pitocin causes more intense contractions and I would have to say that the lead up contractions are the same but when it came to transition and pushing that was when the contractions became almost more than I could handle. I'm so glad that I had an understanding and non-pushy nurse who didn't pressure me into having an epidural. It definitely has made an amazing difference in my recovery. I brought my own new, comfy pajamas to wear in the hospital and I'm amazed at how much better/more human I felt right away while wearing them. 


On my way to have a baby!


Enjoying my ice chips!


Labor is very tiring


She's a big girl!


Getting to know you


Just chillin' under the heat lamp


Being born is tough work


Meeting baby Lizzy


Josie's in LOVE!


Happy Family

Sunday, October 5, 2014

Welcome Baby Lizzy!

Elizabeth "Lizzy" Jane Gardner
September 23, 2014
8 lbs 14 oz, 21"





 I can't believe I have 4 kids!

Sunday, March 3, 2013

Elias's Birth Story

I've had this written up for some time now I keep forgetting to post it. So almost six months later, without further ado, Elias's birth story.

I went into labor on Thursday September 6th. It started gradually with me losing my mucus plug in the morning. I told Andrew that today was probably going to be the day but I had a feeling it would be similar to Josie's birth so he didn't have to worry about not going in to work. Contractions started around 3 pm and kept going through the evening. Around 6 pm I started timing them and they were never really consistent. Later in the evening I was thinking about going to the hospital because I knew it was going to be soon, but around 10 pm the contractions had stopped. So instead of going to the hospital I went to bed. I really didn't want to get there and have to come home because I wasn't having any contractions. Around 1 am contractions woke me up. I got up and went to the bathroom and I had more bloody show so I woke Andrew up and told him it was time. I got myself dressed and sat on the bed and just stayed there until Andrew had everything ready to go. The contractions had intensified and I couldn't walk without assistance. I used Andrew as my walker as he walked backwards and I directed him where to go. In the car I was able to close my eyes and breathe through the contractions. It's about a 30 minute drive to the hospital and I kept praying, "Please make it to the hospital. I don't want to have this baby at the 7-11." A few years ago a friend of mine really did have her baby in the 7-11 parking lot. We got to the hospital and parked and again I had to use Andrew as my walker. We would go a few steps and stop for the contraction and go again until we reached the main lobby. The guys at the front desk got me a wheelchair and called up to labor and delivery to tell them we were on our way up. Here's where the fun really starts. We get upstairs and go to check in and even though I had been there only two days before they couldn't find any information about me. The lady doing the checking in seemed to be completely oblivious to the fact that I was very much in labor but I finally had a nurse come out to take me to get checked in to triage. I stand up to get weighed and I have a contraction as I'm getting off the scale and even though the bed is only a few feet away I can't move. I tell the nurse I have to go to the bathroom and that it feels like I'm peeing my pants as I stood there. So she puts me back in the wheelchair and takes me to the bathroom. So I go to the bathroom and as I'm trying to get up she asks if I'm doing okay which is right when I have the sensation to push and tell her no I'm not okay and I think my water just broke. So she rushed in checked me and helped me get my underwear back on for the wheelchair ride back to the bed in triage. We really had everyone in a tizzy at this point and so I get up on the bed and they tell me to try not to push, which if you've never had to NOT push it is REALLY hard. Every time they told me not to push I would tell them I'm trying not to. So I'm trying to breathe through the contractions and not push they push my bed and try to figure out where to take me. I heard some discussion about which room and someone said no to one room because they weren't sure I was going to make it to that room. So we end up in the closest open room and I get into the labor and delivery bed, still not pushing, waiting for the all the necessary things to be set up. I now have 3 doctors, none of them mine and one is definitely a resident and one is a med student, standing at the foot of my bed all just looking at me, it seems like forever but they are waiting for me to have my next contraction to push. At first I'm really tense while I'm pushing but I'm able to catch my breath and am able to relax a little to help me push. I don't know how many pushes it takes but it seems like forever for them to say his head is out and then another long round of pushing before his shoulders came out. They told me that from the time my water broke on the toilet to the time he was out was 8 minutes. Since he spent so little time in the birth canal he didn't have enough time to have all the fluid squeezed from his lungs so they had him for a little while before I got to hold him. I had a little tear that they had to repair and then I got up and changed into the hospital gown and then I got to hold him.

I was telling my doctor my birth story later that morning and when I got to the point where the nurse wheeled me to the bathroom instead of checking me to see how far dilated I was she said, "I'm going to have a talk with someone." because she was definitely supposed to check me before taking me to the bathroom. Though I'm thankful my water broke on the toilet and not somewhere awkward, like in a wheel chair on the way to the elevator. I had been having second thoughts about having Elias completely natural with no epidural at all and going to the hospital in transition really made my decision for me. It was really nice not being tied down to an I.V. after the birth, though I had tested positive for GBS which meant I was supposed to get antibiotics in my I.V. before the birth but they really didn't have time for that. Since I didn't get that Elias and I had to stay two days in the hospital instead of just one for observation to make sure Elias wasn't affected by it. Let me just say, the delivery beds are not very comfortable and even though the recovery beds were heaven at first, two days with nowhere else to go makes for a very sore back in an increasingly uncomfortable bed.

My Mom flew in on Wednesday night so she got here just in time. It was great especially since we had to leave so late that we could just go without worrying what to do with the kids. I don't think I would have made it to the hospital if we'd had to drop them off somewhere. Peter and Josie got lots of Grandma time and they loved it. Andrew's Dad happened to be in town for Jared's ordination so he came down from Phoenix and visited with the kids on Saturday and he and Tim came and visited me in the hospital. I got out of the hospital Sunday morning then Andrew and Peter and Grandpa went to Phoenix for the ordination.

Elias is such a sweet baby, he's super chill and just loves to cuddle. At first Peter didn't care one way or another about Elias but now he likes to tell me when he's crying, so I can take care of him and make him stop crying. Josie has been in love with Elias since we brought him home always trying to mother him. Now she still tries to mother him but she also tries to play with him. Which results in me yelling things like, "Stop sitting on Elias" or "Get your foot out of his face" or "Just let him roll on his own." She means well and most of the time he laughs but he has a distinct "Josie's bothering me" cry.


Two days old
  
One month old

Two months old


 Three months old

Four months old

Four months

Four months

Five months

Monday, September 10, 2012

Sunday, September 2, 2012

Josie Pictures

I figure it's been a while since I've posted pictures of the kids so here's Josie's very own post. 

She was more interested in sleeping than playing with her friend

Cute Josie

See the car

If you look closely you can see one of her eyes is turning green

Figuring out this whole gardening thing

Caught in action, trying to put her new PJs on

I found this headband at a yard sale

Sometimes eating is exhausting